The Perspective of Experience: A Semester Abroad in Morocco and the Netherlands
 
Brianna Sandy ‘21, a Political Science major, studied abroad in Morocco and the Netherlands for the spring 2020 semester. As a Global Scholar and Gilman Scholarship recipient, she found that participating in a semester abroad helped to focus her graduate school plans. She reflected on her experience and shared important moments from her semester during the Being a Woman Abroad workshop, hosted by the Study Away Program.
“The topic of my study abroad was migration and transnational identity; in September, I will be going abroad to graduate school for security and strategic studies. My focus will be on shifting global boundaries--both tangible and virtual. I also got the opportunity to learn some Arabic, which I will continue studying in graduate school and will prove useful in a future career in international security.”
Brianna has an encouraging message for you: “Do it. If you do a little bit of sniffing around for scholarships, there’s plenty to fund undergraduate travel, so you might even be lucky enough not to pay anything out of pocket for your study abroad experience versus staying here. I highly recommend anyone who’s considering study abroad do so, even if it’s not ‘conventional’ for your major.”
An Interview with Brianna Sandy
What  did you do to prepare for the experience? 
To prepare for my study abroad, I did  extensive research on the history and culture of Morocco, which was my program  base. I focused more on preparing for Morocco because I felt that the  Netherlands would be similar enough to the U.S. that I wouldn’t need much  preparation. I learned about the etiquette practiced in Morocco (never shake  hands with your left hand!) and the gender dynamics I would need to adjust to. 
What  were the most important takeaways from your experience? 
Studying in Morocco taught me a lot about the  complicated nature of power in the real world. It’s easy to read some articles  and do some research and decide that you understand the thrust of how power  works in a particular place, either on a scale as small as gender dynamics or a  scale as large as gender relations. But there are a million details that change  the calculus and make parsing out where those lines are a lot more difficult  when you’re staring them in the face instead of just reading information that’s  been filtered through someone else. A lot of my major is researching other  countries and comparing different cultures and policies and outcomes, but my  study abroad experience really underlined how difficult it is to see the full  picture--no matter how much research you’ve done--without the added perspective  of experience. 
What is  one of your most memorable moments? 
The most memorable moment of my study abroad  experience for me was when we visited with a local direct aid group in Tetouan.  Manos Solidarias makes sure that undocumented migrants attempting to cross the  border from Morocco to Ceuta had food, water, and medical care where they hide  in the wilderness waiting for an opportunity. When we visited the organization,  we got to speak to several people who had attempted the journey before. Two  were young men my age, and one of them described having been beaten so badly by  Spanish border patrol the last time he had tried to cross that his skull had  been cracked and he’d lost several teeth. It had been his sixth time attempting  the crossing, and when we asked, he said that he intended to keep trying until  he succeeded or was killed because the situation was so hostile for him in his  home country and in Morocco. This interaction really broke my heart, because he  was very smart and should’ve been in university getting the opportunity to  study like us instead of feeling like he had to risk his life getting to  Europe. Had I stayed my full term in Morocco, I had arranged to do an  internship with Manos Solidarias, and while I enjoyed the research I ultimately  had to shift to, I am still disappointed I didn’t get the chance to actually do  that internship. Most of the NGOs we interacted with on my trip were trying to  integrate transit migrants into Moroccan culture and tried to tell them what to  do; I think it was cool that despite the leaders of Manos Solidarias not  necessarily agreeing with what their clients were doing, that they respected  their right to try and make their future they way that they wanted to. 
What  did you learn about the culture or norms of the country?
One thing that was a big difference from here  in the US was the importance placed on familial and platonic relationships. In  Morocco, families have their meals together off the same large plate--even for  lunch, many jobs let their employees go home to eat with their families.  Moroccans put 110% into their relationships with others, and invest a lot of  time in cultivating them; I remember my host mom stopping every ten steps or so  to talk to another person that she knew in the market, catching up on how their  lives were going. Not just in the American, “How are you doing?” and “I’m fine,  how are you?” sort of scripted way, but having deeper and genuine  conversations. I was always surprised by the way that people would drop by  dinnertime unannounced and be welcomed to a seat at the table with no  hesitation and absolute joy by my host mom. Here, that would be considered  incredibly rude, but in Morocco, it’s just part of life. And that made Morocco  feel much more like a community than anything I’ve experienced here in the U.S.  When I came back, I started trying to set aside more time to spend with my  family and friends and to be a bit more spontaneous with my plans, and I’ve  found myself far happier for it. 
What is  the biggest thing you learned about yourself? 
I learned how to trust myself while traveling  alone. During spring break, I traveled to Seville, Spain and spent the  three-day weekend traveling the city by myself. I don’t know a lick of Spanish,  so I didn’t have that language skill to fall back on for communication, but I  enjoyed the freedom of traveling outside of the guided sort of tours we were  given when we ventured outside our base in the Rabat medina in my program.  Navigating the city, figuring out how to communicate with people who didn’t  share a language with me, and traveling on my own on hours-long bus and ferry  rides was not anywhere near as nerve-wracking as I expected it to be. I  actually found it freeing. It was the experience of traveling solo that led me  to decide that I wanted to do graduate school abroad.
Would  you do this experience again? 
I would do this experience again in a  heartbeat--though preferably not during a global pandemic! It’s easy to read a  lot about a place and think you understand it fairly well, but actually  traveling there opens your eyes to things about your host country that are hard  to put into words.